<p>Hi everyone, so I currently regret my college choice so much. I'm currently a sophomore in college and I go to a university thats about a 20 min drive away and I commute. I really regret my commuting decision and the decision to go to this college because it's such a commuter school and the campus sucks and it's so boring. I got into my first choice college but I didnt end up going because I figured I'd commute and save money and it was the biggest mistake ever. I just go to class and then come home, I barely have any close friends that I can hang out with for stuff besides class related. Even though its a commuter school, it is heavily involved in frats/sororities so to have a social life you basically need to be in one those. My freshmen year wasn't so bad because my gf was in hs and we used to hang out and talk all the time but now she went away to college and is living the college life and so are all my friends and its making me feel so lonely and jealous and making me regret this decision that much more. I'm planning to transfer to my first choice of college, infact I already applied, just hoping I get in. I tried making friends but everyone is into their own clique and then I get discouraged and go home. The only thing that makes me happy is that my grades are nott suffering, I have a 3.9 GPA so far but thats not so important to me anymore. What can I do to help the loneliness?</p>
<p>How about giving back to the community? If you are interested in medicine, volunteer at a clinic. ngineering? habitat for Humanity etc… Volunteer dot org is one spot to look, or through your family church. Meet people…give back… Build your resume… It’s a win win!</p>
<p>Transfer out to a school you’d like to be at. I don’t recommend it to be your girlfriend’s school because unless you’ve been together for a while, you could break up.</p>
<p>Good luck getting in</p>