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<p>Overall that’s good news. Of course, it would be helpful if your parents would be more forthcoming–and specific–with you. But perhaps that will come … gradually.</p>
<p>So what I suggest you do is to start to make a list of colleges, following the suggestions you’ve gotten already. When you hone in on a school that you especially like (or maybe a couple), show the price tag (s) to your parents and say, “Do you think I could enroll here even if I don’t get financial aid or a scholarship?”</p>
<p>Your parents may say, “YES!! We already told you that you don’t need to worry about cost. You’re covered.” But, conversely, they may not be up to speed on the price of the most expensive colleges, which could spark the conversation that you’ve been eager to have with them about college affordability.</p>
<p>Another thing that your parents need to know is this:</p>
<p>They’ve told you that your college costs will be “taken care of” but do you know if this will be by them or perhaps by someone ELSE (grandparent, aunt, uncle, etc.)? If a family member or friend has volunteered to cover your college expenses, that’s a very generous offer but it may not be one that you need right now.</p>
<p>Depending where you apply and are accepted–and on your parents’ income and assets–you may be qualified for a lot of need-based financial aid. If that’s the case, you may want to talk to your parents about putting the promised funding aside for later (if you think you might end up in graduate school) and take advantage of the aid and scholarships you qualify for now.</p>
<p>Of course, if the money is coming from your parents, that probably won’t be an option because you may not qualify for any need-based aid at all. (This is where the Net Price Calculator could be helpful. It will let you know if you do qualify for some need-based aid.) </p>
<p>But, on the other hand, even if the money is coming from elsewhere (not from your parents), you may still want to consider accepting the generous offer so that you can free up financial aid for students who can’t enroll without it.</p>
<p>In any case, it would certainly be helpful for your parents to be more candid with you about money matters.</p>