<p>Kluge, as another California parent and a UC grad, I think that the UC's can't be beat for a kid with your d's profile, and an inclination toward premed. In addition to Santa Barbara, UCSC is great for biological sciences -- and truthfully the less competitive UC campuses are probably a better choice for pre-med, since your d is likely to have an easier time keeping up her GPA if she isn't competing against all of those math & science superstars who end up at Berkeley. </p>
<p>I know its hard to give up on the promise of that 34 ACT - it certainly might pull in some merit money at 2nd tier schools -- but that by itself won't get your daughter into the elites. As a Barnard mom, I have to agree with Mythmom that it is an amazing place... but unless you have been overly modest about her accomplishments, I don't think your daughter is going to get in as a BWRK with a 3.5 GPA, unless she's coming from a very high end, prestige prep school. (Barnard's average GPA for enrolling students is 3.96 - they have a lot of driven, perfectionist types). And I am saying that as a parent who is always telling others not to discount their chances, given the fact that my d. got in to Barnard with a dismal ACT of 28 -- but that's kind of the point. Barnard is not about test scores - they really are looking for kids who stand out in some way, so without super-high stats or a hook, a well lopsided profile (outstanding in <em>something</em>) is probably essential. </p>
<p>Having been through the process with a daughter who was dead set on getting away from California -- when you drop down below the elite in terms of likely admissions, at a certain point you are sacrificing a lot in terms of academics as compared to the UC system, especially if your d. wants large & urban & is focused on the northeast. I despaired at first with my d's reach-heavy east coast list, but then I realized that when a kid's <em>safety</em> is UC, there really is no particular value in looking at private colleges that aren't as strong academically -- when I refer to academic strength, I am considering the range of course offerings as well as the level of challenge. </p>
<p>Looking at mythmom's list: NYU, BU or GW means paying $50K a year for pretty much the same experience that you can get at a UC campus as an in-stater for half the price. Sorry -- my d. applied to both NYU & BU, I'm not trying to bash the schools, but you are looking at very large universities, and the difference between public/private in that context is not that great. My d. also wanted large & urban, so of course that was the attraction...... but again, I think you should be grateful that your d. isn't as stubborn as mine. </p>
<p>If I were you, I'd let your d. browse through the Princeton Review 300-something best college book to her heart's content, and apply wherever she wants ... but don't push for out-of-state, and definitely do NOT under any circumstances start trying an EC makeover. Sorry -- I disagree strongly with Mythmom -- that stuff has to come from the kid and their own internal drive, or else you end up with a miserable kid and an ad com that isn't fooled anyway. Since you are a fellow lawyer, I'll explain it in legalese: EC's require corroborating evidence, in the form of some sort of awards, long record of involvement or accomplishment, or teacher recs singing the praises of whatever it is the kid is really dedicated to. Faking it won't work.... and there's no point in adding stress to the parent/kid relationship to the last year the kid is home. Let her do her own thing, whatever that is, and if the worst-case scenario in terms of college admissions is 4 years at UCSB.... well, that's a very nice, sunny, well-regarded "worst-case". You can have a very stress-free senior year with your d. if you simply are at peace with that possible outcome, no matter what other paths your d. decides to explore.</p>