<p><We pay 40k a year for an education, not babysitting. The college should not be held responsible for something the student have been responsible for. This is more the individual's fault rather than the colleges.</p>
<p>Am I the only one who feels this?></p>
<p>I feel that it is not 100% school's or student's fault. Both can and do contribute to the occurrence of suicide. </p>
<p>Please remember that people often do not realize they need help. When one is feeling suicidal, suicide is what feels right, not getting help. Are you very much responsible for you own biochemistry leading you astray? No, because you have very little control over it. But there is no one that can help you better than yourself. There is no one to say anything if you feel something is wrong - so yes, indeed it is up to students to go and seek help. It is their responsibility to try to keep their lives in check.</p>
<p>Schools, on the other hand, can contribute to fostering an unfriendly and competitive environment, where students feel they must demonstrate they are happy, successful, surrounded by friends (or die). Schools can do a lot about the settings these suicidal students find themselves in as to decrease the unhappiness these students experience. For example, to decrease isolation, courses can be designed to make students work in groups more. There can be workshops that educate students on the prevalence of affective and personality disorders so that no one feels like "i'm the only one struggling with this here". People who sit in academic advising offices can be reminded to be more friendly; TAs can be cautioned to be less overbearing. Many different things can be done. Should the schools be striving to foster the best environment for their students? Naturally yes, because students will perform better academically. Because you pay 40k for education each year. But does education only entail sitting in lecture, taking notes while professor scribbles something on the board? I think the environment of the school has a lot to do with learning.</p>
<p>Of course, if you have bipolar disorder, then settings do not matter that much in terms of you feeling depressed. But not every suicide attempt will come from someone who is diagnosed with something as severe.</p>
<p>Schools also sometimes engage in false advertising as far as their support programs go. They show off their free counseling services, number of various support groups they have, but then hire the worst psychologists out there, who just prescribe anti-depressants left and right unable to diagnose correctly even the most simple cases. I think schools have a responsibility to make sure that if they claim they have all these support programs available to students, that they keep those on a decent level and spend enough money on them. That they are not just there, but they also work.</p>
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<p>Not all these students fail academically (academics is what you pay those 40k for, right?). So why should they be expelled, dismissed, forced to take academic leave? It is not like all depressed and emotionally distraught students just get by from one C to another C until one semester they decide they cannot do it anymore. Some of these kids are overachievers, get straight A's, are very bright in their frields. So if one of these kids comes and says one bright shinny day "i need some professional help, i have suicidal thoughts" should the school threaten to expel or dismiss him or her? What about those 40k the kid's parents paid?</p>
<p>by the way, does anyone know what is the average suicide rate at universities?</p>