I hated math my entire life, and was terrible at it. I managed to graduate from HS, get in to a competitive college, and then get into a tough grad program with a conditional acceptance- I needed to get a C or better in a remedial math class which the university offered over the summer. It started with addition and subtraction and ended with calculus. I was terrified, since I’d already quit my job for grad school and if I couldn’t pass calculus, bye bye grad program.
it was a PROFOUNDLY liberating experience. The professor was fantastic and made me realize that when you are terrible at math, you end up in the track with the terrible math teacher. The inspiring and fun and phenomenal math teachers teach the kids who love math. I’d never had one of those.
The class was amazing, and I got an A on the final which was the first time I’d ever done well at anything numbers- related, and was the first time I didn’t have an anxiety attack during a math test, just because I was so well prepared that I knew I’d pass. (no trick questions- that’s also part of “remedial math” at the graduate school level- the point was to test our understanding of all the key concepts, not to play mind games).
I don’t believe that being math-phobic, or terrible at math, or even “My job doesn’t require math” is a successful mindset these days. Everything requires math- understanding the controversy over measles vaccines, figuring out if you should refinance your house, getting a raise at work and calculating if you should pay off your credit card debt or put it into your 401K, when to exercise your stock options at work, understanding if the deal you’re being offered for a used Honda with all the bells and whistles and an extended warranty is better than the deal for the new Toyota. Or if you need life insurance, or if it’s better to get a large tax refund in April or no refund but a bigger paycheck every month. Even former math-phobes like me need math every day.
Do I need calculus? No. But I needed it to enter an MBA program, and I couldn’t have had the career I’ve had without it. But getting “caught up” in math- and not fearing spreadsheets when I need to analyze and present at work has been critically important.
OP- do your kid a favor- and figure out who the very best math teacher/tutor is in your area, particularly one who specializes in teaching kids with LD’s. We live in a world which is run by the numbers, and even if you are in a career which involves zero numbers, it is hard to be financially literate, or medically knowledgeable for that matter without a lot of confidence in your computation skills.