<p>@ happymom:</p>
<p>I really didn’t explain I well. My parents do not compete for affection, they are still really friendly towards each other; in my life they appear as a closed unit. </p>
<p>My father has been saving for me since birth, he has always had ambitious goals and calculated the cost of an education Into his financial decisions. Oxford was the original goal; however do not feel ready to make a commitment to one subject at the age of 16.
My mom wants to move anyway, because when I move out, she won’t need the additional space anymore. </p>
<p>Both parents are willing to stretch as much as feasible for them. The mentioned actions fall within that range.
We have talked it over multiple times. I am Kind of convinced that most universities in Europe don’t offer the level of academic intensity and focus on thinking that I feel comfortable with ;)</p>