Tufts might be a good fit.
They have a very inclusive music program where over 3000 of the 5000 undergrads participate…
http://as.tufts.edu/music/documents/faqandinfo.pdf
and great performance facilities open to the entire Tufts (and surrounding) community…
http://as.tufts.edu/music/musiccenter/about/overview.htm
and what some say is the best Steinway grand in New England…
http://tuftsjournal.tufts.edu/archive/2007/february/corner/index.shtml
and an interdisciplinary minor in Music Engineering (sponsored by Steinway) with a course in writing music applications…
http://engineering.tufts.edu/me/undergraduate/musicengineering.htm
and alums that have written music applications that have received significant VC funding
https://www.forbes.com/sites/denalitietjen/2015/07/29/cymbal/#43e209bc6c5c