<p>I am not Asian, I am an American of Northern European descent, but I am a father of two boys, one in college now and one starting this fall. We fathers often want to live our lives again through our sons and have them achieve the things we were unable to achieve. Usually our sons can not hope to live up to the impossibly high expectations we often have for them. That is our problem, not yours. Do well at the college you did get accepted at and hopefully your father will do what I am trying to do, take pleasure in his sons’ successes and not dwell on the inevitable disappointments.</p>