<p>i think to sort of add onto here - </p>
<p>it is a question of a series of opportunity costs, which ultimately make the decision blurry and less clear. i think that you wont find a perfect answer, so looking for one wont be satisfying in the end you will have to decide between apples and oranges.</p>
<p>also i don’t like it when folks plan too far ahead. you have no idea what the future holds, if law school really is in your future, etc. so whereas you should be aware of future costs, they are potential costs and not actual ones.</p>
<p>so i will appeal to something else to hopefully add a new layer to the conversation. don’t go to columbia because you think it is cool that there is a school in new york city, don’t go because it is an ivy league school or prestigious or has more status, don’t go because you want to be X when you graduate. go because you want to think really hard, you want to (or already do) ask questions that flummox most of your family, because you are excited by intricacies and globality. in a sense, go because you look at the world differently than 99% of the world that for the most part are incredibly pragmatic and programmatic about their lives. like my parents do not understand why i don’t have a career, but instead of being a vagabond, i tell them it is because the career path i am choosing doesn’t have a major, and certainly no professional school. the answer is unsatisfying, and i realize because they can’t fathom the way i see the world and why i feel so certain that i’ll be fine. i respect them and how they have gone about things, but i know that my trajectory will probably not go as theirs has, and even if i go to professional school, it is to develop a skill set and not for some societal rite of passage.</p>
<p>indeed i think this is true not just of columbia, but for a lot of top schools (ives and others). those schools prepare you for a vastly different trajectory than most schools. it is something i’ve said on here before and it is why i like columbia a lot, but also why it is not meant for everyone. if you want to be a pediatrician in your hometown, you don’t need columbia (though i’d say the rigor of the core and the attention to interconnections would make you a better pediatrician). if you want to think, work and live on a global playing field, on a rapidly changing landscape, columbia could be for you, and so long as you keep up with that love of learning, networking, moving, hopefully you wont ever have to fear the debt problem.</p>
<p>in fact i guess one of the things i know for certain is that i could be fired from a job tomorrow, can call up some folks and could if i wanted find something to get me back on my feet quickly. and that is an assurance i think that comes in part from having attended a school like columbia (the network), but also from the frame of thinking of the world that you gain by (or have enhanced by) going to columbia. it is a radically different POV.</p>