Coming in NOT as a new freshman

<p>So, as you may be able to tell by my username, I was a new junior at my boarding school this year. First off, let me say, I love it. I've made lots of friends, guys and girls, and everyone is really nice! There's a lot of homework but it gets done! I DO want to point some stuff out to anyone who may be starting school as a new sophomore, junior, senior, or PG though. Personally, I'm pretty good at meeting people and I've done fine. If I was shyer, though,it would not work out well. You have to get out there and get involved. I auditioned for both small chorus and the play, knowing I wouldn't get into either (I didn't) but just thinking that I would even meet people at auditions and that if I did make it, I would meet even more people. I'm definitely going to join some clubs, and I'm on cross country. The team is awesome! I have noticed that out of all the new juniors, there are a few who aren't very involved and they haven't made many friends outside of the OTHER new juniors, so I would really suggest getting involved in SOMETHING. I assure you, most schools will have some club, sport, or organization you will like. Also, you can't be afraid, if you just recognize one person at a table, to go and sit and talk to them. Even if you don't recognize anyone, you don't look weird or friendless. You just look new. I honestly think this was the best decision of my life- where else could I have someone from Albania in my physics class, and someone from France AND someone else from Switzerland in my French class? My roommate is from England, my friends come from all over New England, America, the globe. One of my good friends is a Thai Scholar...aka she's one of the smartest kids in Thailand, and the Thai government pays for her to come here. And don't listen to the stereotypes when you get there. People told me that the other juniors in my dorm were cliquey and that the junior guys were jerks. Some of those girls ARE cliquey, but not all, and some of the junior guys ARE jerks, but some of them are my best friends here. Also, the classes are harder but manageable. I actually LIKE my classes, quite a bit.</p>

<p>So if you're nervous about being a new kid in an awkward grade that ISN'T a freshman, don't worry! It's so fine, everyone is incredibly sweet. Don't just hang out with the other new kids either. Meet EVERYONE. Oh, and the good thing about being new at an older age? People are really curious about you. I've had people actually seek me out and say "OH you're the new junior!" </p>

<p>I hope I helped! Happy applying!</p>

<p>Thanks! I was kind of nervous about this since I'm applying for junior year. :)</p>

<p>which school do u go to? :)</p>

<p>^ Ha, I was going to ask that also!</p>

<p>At my bs we actually had 1-2 girls come in as new seniors. They are doing fine.</p>

<p>I am applying as a junior and everyone that doesn't know me tells me I won't have any friends and people that know me tell me that I will either be the most well known and liked new kid or the most annoying kid on campus.</p>

<p>I am the type of guy that paints his chest for games(when I am not playing), tries to attend at least half of the games at my school, tries to do every club and tries to be friends for everyone. </p>

<p>And to bring this back to relevancy, coming into a school where people have built incredible bonds over two years is going to be sort of hard but if you have the personality I would for sure recommend trying to apply junior year. I feel like my high school activity will help me over if I applied in middle school and could only list 5 or 6 ECs.</p>

<p>I went to boarding school as a new junior and made the best friends of my life...and I'm shy and not so good at talking to people I don't know. There will be times where your friends willl talk and laugh about stuff that happened/people you don't know/inside jokes from before you came and you'll just be there awkwardly not laughing about it but it's ok. Going in not as a new freshman isn't a big deal at all.</p>

<p>I'm so glad that you're having fun! I'm loving NMH as well. </p>

<p>Risingjunior goes to Middlesex.</p>

<p>Haha arky, you're definitely right about the friends laughing thing. But it's also a good thing, because my friends who've been here before explain things to me.</p>

<p>I have some advice.
Avoid the drama at all costs!!!!
I would say that I was in a the "popular" clique. Some of the people I hang out with are total jerks. I absolutely regret everything I have done this past week.
I really hate some of the people in my grade. And they hate me too.
I never even talked to them when my friend tells me how much they hate me.
I was like "woahhhh dude!"
So I spread rumors about them among other things. I got even but at the price of my integrity and my reputation. Now half the kids in my grade hate me. The other half just like me because I got back at them.
If people say things about you or any of your friends don't get involved. Don't do anything at all!
Ignore it and tell an adult.
Don't gossip! I know its a lot of fun but it's absolutely foolish.
And be wise as to who you choose to be around with.
I just skipped dinner because of this. Now I have to start over.
Don't befriend people who everyone thinks are cool because I guarantee you the experience won't be cool at all.
Picking the right friends is a huge wall to overcome in boarding school. Dont run into it.</p>

<p>Hang in there Aussie!
Keep in mind this is only the first few weeks of a four year journey. I'm sure many are trying to define/refine their "profile". Pace yourself...You'll be fine :)</p>

<p>Oh yeah, stop skipping dinner!!!</p>

<p>Yeah, Aussie, don't worry. I mean right now, I love it and I have quite a few friends and lots of sweet acquaintances, but sometimes I see everyone being all best friend-y, but I know it evens out after the first few months. SO don't worry. Everyone will forget, just don't do it again :)</p>

<p>Lol
Yeah I know. lol. I'm ok I'm just warning incoming boarders not to do what I did.
LOL Trust me I won't skip dinner again. lol
But it's always nice to have a big fridge full of goodies. lol
I restocked it today.
lol
Good advice nylecoj007 and risingjunior. You guys are great.
How is it working out with your roommates?
I know I hate mine now. lol
I really want to switch.
We act all buddy buddy but there is so much tension. lol</p>

<p>Aussie, what sports are you playing for Kent?</p>

<p>JV Soccer......</p>

<p>Thats pretty good. Boarding school sports are tough in general.</p>

<p>Yeah practices are sooooo brutal.</p>

<p>hellosunshine, my facebook newsfeed just told me good things :) at least I think that's you I have on FB. I would say NMH is going well!</p>