I may be misinterpreting some of the posts here but it seems that one train of thought here suggests that it is okay to commit to a coach/school and get confirmation of a dedicated slot/100% support but then continue with OVs to other schools. That seems unethical. Am I misreading the posts?
I absolutely would not take additional official visits after committing to a coach. I suppose it’s possible there’d be an unusual situation where that makes sense but I can’t think of it. If so I’d make sure to be honest with both coaches.
To be clear, not remotely considering it. Commitment has been made and remaining OVs cancelled already.
Got it. Sorry, I thought you might have been considering it. Not sure which posts you’re referring to but I don’t think many of the regulars here would advise it.
The coaches talk to reach other. Way more than you think. That sounds like a great way to lose both offers.
It’s easy to avoid by not committing to the first school until you are done with OVs. Tell the first coach that he is #1 for you (if true) but you want to complete your OV schedule. The football players do it all the time.
The coach is going to continue inviting people to OV and isn’t stopping recruiting just because you’ve committed.