Compare the social scenes at Swarthmore, Wellesley and Northwestern?

<p>Could you give me some perspective on the social scenes at Northwestern, Wellesley and/or Swarthmore? </p>

<p>I know on the Swat board that there's a thread dicussing whether its "all work and no fun" or not -- any more opinions on the topic? What's the party scene like in comparison to Wellesley and Northwestern (is there a party scene at all? haha :P)? </p>

<p>Also, to past/present students at Northwestern - did you choose to go Greek or not? Did you decision have a big impact on your social life? I'm not really into Greek life and will probably not rush.</p>

<p>I know most of these questions have been asked before, but I'm curious as to how each school matches up to the other. </p>

<p>Also, I'm not a huge party girl, so I'm not looking to go to a giant frat party and get wasted every weekend (notthatthere'sanythingwrongwiththat). However, I would like the option of going out if I felt like it, whether it's dinner and a movie, or a big party once in a while.</p>

<p>Help? Please? :)</p>