<p>I echo klparker312’s sentiments. It’s time to throw him in the deep end of the pool.<br>
Your son does not need to bring a computer to college. There are plenty of computer labs with plenty of computers. This advice came from the IT director at one of the parent/student sessions. A laptop is a convenience. My son refused a laptop, and is happy with a desktop and a large screen.
A reasonable suggestion would be to send him with a cheaper laptop, or better yet, a cheap desktop that has limited graphics capability. It won’t stop him form using a buddy’s xbox in the next room.
TAMU actually is pretty respectful about parental wishes to view grades. Your son will need to sign the appropriate waiver(s), but they make those documents available and call your attention to them during the parental sessions.<br>
Most other colleges lecture you about respecting privacy, forgetting that you are footing the substantial bill.</p>