<p>There is no "helpfulness" when you apparently can't tell a prospective student that your (more than 50% are independent) classmates who don't choose to go Greek also enjoy a high quality of life at Vanderbilt. </p>
<p>The OP, a prospective student who it seems likes to play golf, stated in his post he is not "anti Greek."<br>
Being independent doesn't equate into being "anti Greek."</p>
<p>Do you really think that the Majority of your classmates aren't having four interesting and challenging and memorable years in Nashville (a very cool city) doing it their way?</p>
<p>I have lived in nine states...and Nashville is in my opinion, one of the friendliest places we ever settled in.</p>
<p>Vanderbilt classrooms are warmer and smaller than at many other colleges of its size, the campus is more beautiful, and the town offers many distractions and options for students not looking to their frat or sorority for weekend plans.</p>
<p>My point from my years of living in Nashville, waiting tables in Hillsboro Village, going to concerts, hanging around on Elliston Place, eating in places on West End, interning downtown, catching shows at the ExitInn, killing afternoons in the parks, going to hear great speakers in the grad schools, attending sporting events, studying on campus myself, knowing scores of alum, and my marriage to an alum..is that life for independents is actually more fun at Vandy than at more isolated colleges where you really will have much less to do socially if you don't want to be in Greek societies. (There are some fantastic universities and colleges which my son also applied to with similar Greek percentages but in much less accessible and exciting locations for independents.)</p>
<p>Your skewed perception of the quality of life of Independents in your own school is what I am challenging. No one is denying that Greek life at Vandy is very visible and traditional.</p>
<p>My son (like hundreds of other class of 2013 hopefuls) has applied to several other colleges with vibrant Greek worlds (where he does not believe he is a square peg anywhere) and has applied to a couple of places without Greeks. Most but not all of the colleges he applied to have Greek societies that are quite central to campus life and important to those who join up. He is a Virginian and Greek Row is hugely gorgeous, traditional and fun at UVA, but life for (the majority of) independents in Charlottesville is also quite excellent. UVA grads...and I know hundreds of them, always say UVA gave them the happiest four years of their lives, and yet most of them were independent just based on numbers and stats.</p>
<p>Vanderbilt graduates who opt to go with the majority..the independents.. can also enjoy four of the best years of their lives.</p>
<p>Most students smart enough to get into Vandy have their eyes wide open, and are making choices they understand perfectly. Choosing to be independent at Vanderbilt does not segue into waking up to find yourself in a "mismatch" college because you are not pledging.. and certainly doesn't segue into viewing the majority of your classmates who made intentional independent decisions.."square pegs." </p>
<p>In a few weeks, his father and I will be attending two senior graduation/parent/family parties sponsored by his Frat for the senior brothers at Duke. We will be thrilled to cheer for our son's Greek brothers and for his many independent friends when they graduate and they all move on to do wonderful things with their lives, just as we expect to be cheering for our Vandy son and his varied friends in four years--if he makes the final decision in April to go with Vandy.</p>