<p>Ok so I asked this guy out to prom last year & he basically told me no, but in a weird way..anyway, its a new school year and since i knew that he obviously didn't have interest in me, i didn't really try to talk to him. But he started to talk to me, so i thought, oh no big deal he is just trying to be your friend. But after I told a big mouth friend about him, the next day he started to act weird! Like he was being really nice and he was flirting!</p>
<ol>
<li>Why do you think he is acting like this?</li>
</ol>
<p>Another question. My friend wants me to ask him out to the movies with us..</p>
<ol>
<li>I don’t know, guys are unpredictable. I am one.</li>
<li>Go for it. Guys like it when girls show initiative, it takes the pressure off of us. Just ask casually, not like its a date, and maybe something will develop. Worst he can do is make up some excuse for why he can’t go.</li>
</ol>
<p>As a guy, I enjoy being the one who’s decisive and takes action. If I like a girl, I’ll ask her out. If I don’t, then I’ll avoid the question. If a girl was to ask me out, unless she was hot, I don’t think I would be as open to it solely because she will wear the pants in that relationship, which is not what I want.</p>
<p>I might be different from a lot of guys though. A lot of my friends seem to shyt their pants when it comes to approaching and talking to girls for whatever reason. So if this guy is a “beta”, he might welcome the idea of not being forced into making a decision.</p>
<ol>
<li>I agree with LondonGentleman. Boys are too unpredictable. He could be interested, or he could just feel like flirting just because.</li>
<li>Absolutely! It sounds like the movies is just a normal hangout… If it was a date, then I would think twice.</li>
</ol>
<ol>
<li><p>Yeah…guys are unpredictable. I actually flirted with this girl for 2 months pretty hard and then just stopped talking to her altogether. I still feel like a dick, but she has a bf now so it’s whatever. </p></li>
<li><p>DO IT. Holy **** you don’t understand how ****ed I get sometimes when girls are always like “If you don’t text first then we don’t talk” and keep carrying out that mentality. Yeah as a guy I like to “run the show” (different from being whipped…this I will be haha) but the girl’s showing of initiative by texting me first, for example, gives me some extra motivation.</p></li>
</ol>
<p>@ yalefanboy: OMG lol…wow
@ x.sunny: I know >.<. Maybe it is me :/…every guy i like always end up playing games! But since I asked him to prom, don’t you think he kind of knows that i like him…but that was last year…well actually apr. @golfer111: wow, why did you flirt with her that long? lol. But I technically made the first MAJOR move by asking him out to prom :(!</p>
<p>I flirt a lot and most guys at my school need a big push to start dating (like hanging out a lot almost as if you’re dating)… just start to casually include him in your plans and if he’s interested, he’ll go along with it, if not you can just keep flirting for fun or let it be.</p>
<p>On the one hand though, it’s easier to like someone once you know they like you.
And yes, I’m aware that sounds very middle-school, but it’s true…He had the summer to think about you like <em>that</em>, he could’ve changed his mind!
Go for it!</p>