Congratulating the Super Achievers

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<p>Apparently I'm only one of many who are (is?) troubled by Marite's decision to leave CC for reasons that many of us don't fully understand. I know something "bad" happened; I don't know what.</p>

<p>As is common among us, I'm first reviewing my own comments to reassure myself that I haven't been (unintentionally, I promise!) nasty or condescending or narrow-minded or --pick an adjective. And then I consider what the overall "not so good feel" of a bunch of threads has been over the past few days.</p>

<p>And I've had a "profound" realization: We've collectively spent so many words talking about how not getting into HYPS (or pick your other set of selectives) isn't a reflection on the rejected kids, or the guaranteed way to success and happiness, or perhaps the wisest financial decision, that we've forgotten to celebrate with the amazing kids who DID get in their reach schools...</p>

<p>I have no idea if this might be a contributing factor to Marite's decision to depart...but I do know I never told her CONGRATULATIONS on her S's admission to Harvard...or that I thinks it's wonderful and that while it may not reflect badly on kids who do not get it, it sure does reflect wonderfully on kids who do!</p>

<p>So...I pause here for moment to celebrate our HYPS (and other selective) rising college freshmen...way to go, guys & gals! It matters not whether you come from privilege or poverty, luck or persistent planning...you have achieved mightily and you deserve our heartfelt kudos for a job well done!!!!</p>

<p>There's not a one of you who "skated" into one of these superlative schools...you all gave up parties and video games and chats with friends to do your work and learn your lessons and contribute to your communities and enhance your personal growth. You worked, and you worked hard, and we're remiss for not acknowledging your achievements...CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!! You earned it; you deserve it; our hats are off to you & your families.</p>

<p>Kudos go to all the kids who found their college homes...but let's not forget that those kudos go every bit as much to the kids who aimed high, reached for their personal stars, and got there! HURRAY for them!!!</p>

<p>Our world will be a better place because of these kids and I'm proud to e-know you and your families...</p>

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<p>Can I fix my typo? It's (of course) Congratulating...I don't know how to edit...maybe one of our super mods can do it for me???? Thanks--</p>

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<p>We need to as well acknowledge all those kids who gave up the exact same things, who contributed as much, who worked as hard, had the grades, the test scores, the ECs, the recomendations, the essays, the "it" but didn't make the cut because of shear volume of applicants. But found wonderful schools that they will shine at. You, too, are super acheivers!!!!</p>

<p>You also deserved it.. but we know that wherever you go, you will do great things. </p>

<p>And don't disparage because this time, you might have missed "that" star, you did indeed find another one!!! You all aimed high and found your own stars....</p>