Parent here I can comment on a few from personal experience.
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William & Mary - as out of state, very hard to get in and money is very limited to nonexistent. If I recall from the presentation they leave less than 30% of spots for out of state. Just do the math.
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Bates - rejected from there. If you apply you must interview, you must make sure the two essay supplements are perfect and unless you apply early decision your odds are slim. Also admissions for nonrecruited girls is the toughest place to be. If you view it as a likely to Brown or others you will be making a mistake.
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Brown - rejected from there the negative is simply a matter of very very low probability of acceptance.
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Swarthmore - like Brown.
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Hamilton - accepted there, negative is isolation and depending on where you live hard to get to. Also, the campus lacks energy. It is a very serious place and hard to get into.
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Dickinson - a lot more girls than boys. Very very nice place though. Much easier to get into than the above.
I made a point of stressing hard to get into for some because it is misleading to judge them by just acceptance rates. Applicants without a really good hook need to be 98th percentile students to have a reasonable chance.