<p>bluebayou:
I don’t think SAT, GPA, EC are that income-related as ppl chose to believe. ‘statistics data’ after all is only ‘statistics’, it dose not show how much ‘emphasize’ a family put in ‘education’ at different income level.</p>
<p>My kid gose to local public school. There are quite few kids got >2300+ SAT, no 4.0 GPA this year. AFAIK quite few achieve this without their parents send them to private prep SAT class. However the school does provide FREE SAT prep class for low income family kids…</p>
<p>I have a friend of mine, who live in NY with well below average family income, both of her kids went to NY public school system. Both of them went to district eagal classes from 4(?)th to 8th grade. And both of them went to free elite summer program for talented kid in low income family funded by city or some charity. Then both of them went to a top notched NY public high school at NYC down town through ‘merit-selected’ process. …The kids earned it fare and square…Both got >2300+ SAT…my point is the cream always rise to the top, no matter where you go, private or public, poor or rich under the merit system. If you have the determination, make your kid’s education top priority even a poor family can do it.</p>
<p>I DO NOT “Equating all the poorer families to those who spend lavishly…”…I have out most respect for this friend. She dose not have the same education background or opportunity like me. But she has the determination to give her kids the best education she could. Even with well bellow average income, she managed to pay private music instrument lessons and other suplement weekend programs for both kids started at very young age… Yet the most extravant vacation for her family is a trip to Six flags, and that was many many years ago… Both parents have worked their $sss off to saving up and plan to pay their kids’ educations. While they could’ve game the system, took out social fares…Now with elder son in college persued a medical degree and young daughter going to go to college next year. She took up some min waged job at weekend or after day time job (had being there done that myself in my early years)…Now I have outmost respect for ppl like this. </p>
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No, we are not talking about them. At least not my intention when I join the disscussion. And if I understand mammall correctly (correct me if you will), her “tax-like” is that the FA proposed by Harvard for income $120k~$180k could be extended to the family with income >$180k as well, that is family contribute 10% (or in a increased % scale if your income >$180k) to the total cost. This will make family income > $450k phase out for FA automatically. I believe the “truly wealthy hedge fund managers and Kennedys and Trumps” erned well beyond this level…Now if their kids won some MERIT scholarship, all the power to them. Its their kids’ right and proud. I plaud to them, too. Cause they earned through their own effort, not lie on their parents money…</p>
<p>I join the disscussion to talk about the “double income professional family” easily exceed of $180k income line in the area I live. The rough calculation (ref my early post) shown after taxes, mortage, social scurities, a family with AGI $180k has about as much $50k left before the grocery, utilities, gas, etc. We proberbly has to drink the wind if we don’t have any saving. Yes, some of us do not have saving since they paid all saving to the down pay for a decent house. And they diddn’t make that kind money long enough.</p>
<p>mammall: I wish my kid would have this fighting spirit for those ‘merit’ scholarships. It would be the highest honor to win. But with all the peer pressue going on, and all these years he’ve got this far without any help from us (honestly now I know we could not give him any valid advices since we went through a totally different education system), as parent we don’t want to put any more pressure on him during already stressful college applicaion process…</p>
<p>I truely addmir those who pay ‘full freight’ cost, yet delibrate avoid to apply MERIT based scholarship…However for those already in ‘need-based’ FA program, I doubt a ‘merit-based’ scholarship would affect much on the total of FA in your package, AFAIK, they will deduct the same amount from your ‘need-based’ FA if you got the ‘merit-based’ schoolarship.</p>
<p>nmd,
Yes, they are. And for this I applaud for them. However, as I understand the addmission process is “need-blinded”, the admission officer don’t know if you are “rich” or “poor” when they read your application. It is only after you are admitted that they send your FA application to their FA office to process. I don’t see why the process would crowded out the “low income” bracket kids. As long as your ‘merit’ falling in H range, a kid from low income family not less worthy a kid from $120k~$180k family. Visevas. Why should a merit qualified kid from $120k~$180k or above family being ‘punished’ by their “well-off” parents’ income? I personally know a lot of parents falling in this income range had ‘push’ their kids to “free ride state flagship” program when their kids got addmitted to ‘need-based’ ivy or ivy alike schools, because those parents can’t see it justifiable, given the fact that they climbed the from bottom up. In one case, I heard the kid (and a only child) suicide after one year unhappy life at the state university.</p>
<p>A true beliver of “need/gender/race blind” college addmission policy.
A true beliver of “tax-like” struct FA.</p>