Controversial Q

<p>So during one of our discussions at dinner... the guys and girls got to talking about flirting and dating at college. And one of the questions that came up is what guys consider a signal that a girl likes them, and visa versa. As we all know actions and expressions are often misinterpreted resulting in confusion and hurt feelings. The guys in our group really couldn't explain what they consider a signal from a girl, they said that they're never sure, lol. I know that this is a very general question and the answer doesn't apply all the time - but what do you guys think? Wanna dilute the mystery?</p>

<p>Without flirting and seeing the girls response, there really is no way to tell in most cases.</p>

<p>Well, if the girl grabs ur crotch and says "F me", that's a pretty obvious sign, but most women will wait. If they like a guy, they will be friendly. But many women act extremely friendly even to guys they do not like. So this is not a way to tell.</p>

<p>The only way to be sure is to flirt and see how she responds. Or just simply ask her out.</p>

<p>Yeah I consider all flirting innocent fun, until the girl says something to the effect of going out/hooking up, then I make my move. Hot chicks get asked out all the time, so unless I get verbal confirmation, I avoid bothering them.</p>