<p>I've been following this thread with bemused interest. I'm an old dad, went to college 30 years ago (not to Cornell - to a major research university that is always within a place or two-either way- of Cornell in the rankings. So I have no ax to grind) I have long observed that many Cornell students and alums have a curious need to stress their Ivy credentials. Yes, I agree, there's power in branding, and the Ivy League - an athletic conference, and nothing more - has developed into a very high-profile brand. But each school ultimately stands on its own, and each is right for some students, and not right for others. My deepest sympathies are reserved for the brand-obsessed students (and parents) who believe in "Ivy at any cost," and end up at a school that is wrong for them. They are all very different schools, and someone who would enjoy Dartmouth for the things that Dartmouth uniquely offers, say, is unlikely to enjoy Penn or Columbia. Were it not for the Ivy brand, I doubt those schools would end up on the same list of any prospective student.</p>
<p>I have visited Cornell several times, and have also visited many college and universities around the country. I know it rankles many Cornellians to hear this, but the overall sense I get of Cornell is a very similar vibe to that of the best state schools - Michigan, Berkeley, Virginia, North Carolina. It's large, diverse, has lots of vocational/pre-professional options (biz schools, hotel school, ILR, architecture, etc), lots of smart kids, many from middle-class backgrounds. And, I'm not saying this disparagingly - those schools are all fine places for certain students, and not for others.
My own preference for my child was to not have him go to a school where he'll be sitting in freshman lecture halls with 500-1000 other kids, and where his teachers, at least in the early years, will be grad students. I had some of that as an undergrad (on a smaller scale), and I don't think it's the best model for higher education. But obviously, plenty of people disagree with me -the numbers speak for themselves.
I just have to wonder, though, whether many students who attain their prized and very competitive entry into an Ivy school are happy once they get there - especially if their image of an "Ivy" - intimate classrooms, high-minded academic discourse, turns out to be vastly different than the reality.
Obviously, there are many good reasons to be at Cornell for many students. If you have decided at age 18 that you want a career in the hospitality industry, the Hotel School's a great place to be. But perhaps the worst reason I can think of to be there, given all of the other choices available - is solely because it's a member of a certain athletic conference founded in 1954.
So c'mon, kids, Cornell pride is a fine thing, but don't worry so much about its status relative to its co-Ivies, or relative to any other school. You will find as you go through life that the older you get, the less you will be concerned about what others think of you because of the brand identity of your life and the imagined prestige associated with those brands (your school, your job, your address, etc). Assess and enjoy these things for their intrinsic value- their real (rather than perceived) quality, and you will be a happier person for it.</p>