<p>How does Wesleyan compare to this, specifically in regards to International Relations? I'm not sure about the rankings of specific programs, but every program at Cornell is consistently at the top. In ilr, you can take classes in both the ilr school and in other colleges. Even though your exact major will no say "international relations" the courses you take will reflect that, which is all that matters. ILR's department of "international and comparative labor" focuses on the most important issues of IR; trade and globalization. The classes go in depth on policy issues of IR, how the governments are interacting, and how the US and the world are dealing with workers who are paid 3 cents for a full days work for products that we are probably wearing right now. </p>
<p>When I visited both, the atmosphere at Wesleyan seemed much nicer. Everyone was outside enjoying themselves, sitting on the lawn, etc. At Cornell everyone seemed to be studying (granted, it was a Sunday night). How do the night lives compare at both? Yeahhhh, Sunday night is study night to say the least. If you came a day earler, you would have seen a much different picture. It was our "catch up" day from having fun all weekend. Sunday through Wednesday nights usually consist of either doing work or hanging out, relaxing, movies, other simple leisure activities. Starting Thursday through Saturday the frat parties heat up and many students take advantage of that. It's a work hard, play hard atmosphere. </p>
<p>How are the people (and the girls?). The "average" student at Cornell is very driven, brilliant, and very well socialized. I hope you had a chance to talk to some cornell students at a lunch or something, have you? If so, what were your impressions there?</p>
<p>On one hand, I feel like I will be passing up the educational opportunity of a lifetime if I do not go to Cornell. I would agree with this. </p>
<p>Yet I am not sure I would be as happy there than I would be at Wesleyan. What are your main fears? Cornell probably offers significantly more student activities (a freakin' bowling alley on campus and 700 student clubs). I think you'd be passing up a huuuge opportunity just because you have this notion that you might be happier at another school. Cornell makes sure that 14,000 undergraduates are happy and entertained. What if worst comes to worst? Just transfer to Wesleyan. I highly doubt this would happen, but it'd be a whole lot easier to transfer to Wesleyan than to Cornell. This brings up another point, what if you're not entirely happy at Wesleyan? Then not only would you be not enjoying college, you would have passes the opportunity of a lifetime at Cornell. </p>
<p>Come to Cornell, you'll have a blast (really). If you have any more questions, just ask, i'm an ILR student as well.</p>