<p>My son has spoken about joining a fraternity. He will be living in the dorm with a meal plan, that is how his scholarship works. He does not want to work while pursuing his undergraduate engineering degree and has choosen to save our financial support for graduate school.</p>
<p>But, he has spoken about joining a fraternity at his school with a lot of other engineering majors.</p>
<p>From reading a little online, it seems like it is taboo to ask about expenses until after the pledge is over and an invitation to join is extended.</p>
<p>So, my questions are:
About how much to join a run of the mill fraternity? Dues, initiation fees, etc?
How much time would be required?<br>
Is it wrong for him to just drop by with a list of questions?
Thanks</p>