<p>I guess my point would be when you decide ahead of time, based on an activity someone chose to do “without” knowing more about their situation, you are the lesser person as a result. You are letting a label (frat boy, lesbian, jew, muslim, etc..) determine your mindset far ahead of meeting the person. </p>
<p>I know I am not perfect by any means and I initially opposed my son joining a frat (kappa sig) from my own mindset. However, my mindset is always open to change. That’s the core basis of learning. Changing your mind about something you believed true before. I have always reserved the right to be wrong about something.</p>