<p>“Public Ivies” typically cost over $40K, and in a few cases over $50K, for OOS students.
State universities generally do not have very generous need-based aid for OOS students. UNC-CH may be an exception.</p>
<p>Have you considered any of the actual Ivies (or other selective private schools)? 4.0UW + top 3% + 33 + 2 varsity letters should give you a shot at Cornell. Cornell (and some other selective private schools) have CS programs at least as strong as some of the “public Ivies”, along with much better need-based aid (especially in comparison to OOS public schools).</p>