Sheesh. Just sheesh. I just had to read a bazilion posts to catch up and so many of you are still fixated on these tests. Itâs not going to do your kids any favor to do this.
The elephant in the room is that, of the kids who get through First Cut, at an elite, most are 4.0 (or darned close,) had high enough test scores, in years past, and then now compete on the rest of their packages.
It seems to be assumed that your kid (or those you admire) DOES have a sufficient ârestâ to equitably compete with other top performers. I hate saying this, but itâs not so. For too many, their ECs are off, one way or another (no matter how impressive they seem to CC folks.) Or they donât even provide relevant LoRs. (Just imagine how frustrating this is. Kid wants, say, stem, proclaims his interest, but no stem LoR?) They write these sorts of essays CC often advocates, which show the adcoms nothing about what the college is looking for, theyâre just writing, as if another hs essay. CC advocates âbe yourself,â forgetting that this isnât about you as Mr or Ms Nice Person or how you love cats, itâs a specific app/supp to specific colleges with high expectations, all around.
Many kids get honest about things which can stop adcoms in their tracks- revealing theyâre sheltered, have limited perspective, donât get along, quit pursuing something too soon, it goes on. Or proudly state theyâre loners or show, in other ways, that theyâre not collaborative.
The example, âwould have loved to visit Philadelphia but couldnât because of covid, I know its a great city with lots of things to do⊠I will totally find myself there!â is not going to make a kid compelling. Youâre appplying to the college, not the city.
Those are just some examples that show, despite grades and maybe scores, these kids are not presenting themselves in ways that promote their apps. Many leave the impression they are sleep-walking through the app/supp. Many offer generic explanations of their interests (Ack, âYouâre a top college and I want a top college.â Or over focus on college being career prep.)
But this thread keeps returning to the issue of TO- and repeated certainty that not having scores is some fake-out or character flaw. Congrats, if your kid could test and you like the results. But whatever you think, the colleges believe enough kids couldnât get the tests, so they went TO. (You want to argue with them, their view, because your kids could test?)
In a competition for an elite slot, it is not simply stats and some leader âtitles.â Any mistake in the rest can set a kid aside. Once your kid has evidence of academic qualification (rigor, grades, and, if available, scores,) the rest is where you and your kiddo should put the energy. Itâs been so for many years.
As for the continuing assumption that only affleuent kids can pull it together, think again.