We very often like to say we should let our young adults make their own choices, and I do wonder where we’re thise kids’ parents. When they saw their kid’s behavior changed what did they do about it. I think the school has some responsibilities, but those kids parents could have also been more proactive. I think I would have known there was someone’s parent living in my kid’s dorm and it wouldn’t have been ok with me. Yes, a parent has the right to visit one’s kid any time, as stated by the school, but I am sure there was a rule on how many nights a visitor could stay. As a parent I would have pressed the school on that.