<p>self-explanatory- all the guys out there- what kind of signals do you give because i'm clueless and impatient over here. (Assuming that you don't just say "hey, i like you" or something obvious like that)</p>
<p>-confused-about-what-to-think</p>
<p>Look at my thread entitled "dating nightmare" in the Cafe. Similar frustrating issue...</p>
<p>ah, thanks</p>
<p>No, but we generally just make subtle comments that you might pass off as being said jokingly when in actuality we are speaking our true feelings. So just watch out for that...and I guess the more obvious 'staring' technique.</p>
<p>haha, it's complicated because i'm a senior and he's... not</p>
<p>Well, as long as he isn't a freshmen....Is he?</p>
<p>olivia313,
I tihnk I'm in the same situation as you're in! Except that we're both seniors. It's just that he has a girlfriend (and has been with her for almost a year...she's a junior).</p>
<p>He does the staring thing (well, actually, we sometimes just stare at each other), he traces the veins on my hand, he asks me to do things with him (we're going to lunch today but he asked me to go to the univ. cincinnati football game with him today also) and by doing things with him, he means just him. Not with friends or anything... He instant messages me as soon as he gets on or I get on and sometimes it'll be a message like "I just got on to wish you a goodnight" and then signs off. Oh, he also walks me to my locker after classes we have together (that he's moved seats to sit by me) while passing his gf who is standing there expecting him to walk her to her locker.</p>
<p>I'm just really confused....is he just being flirty? or does he really like me?</p>
<p>Either he's really confused, or I say he's tracking you down. while passing his **gf**. I have no further comment..</p>
<p>That us the wierdest situation I have ever heard of. You sure it is not a joke, or they aren't broken up?</p>
<p>Oh, I'm sure that they haven't broken up, but my friends have seen them fighting in the halls. I don't think it's a joke...because then it would be a three-month (or even longer, depending on how you liik at it) joke. </p>
<p>He took me to the zoo today for a couple of hours.</p>
<p>When we walk by his gf after class, I try to end our conversation so he can leave and walk with her...but he doesn't really seem to notice and he just keeps on walking with me. </p>
<p>We were also at a party once and he left his group of friends (very different from my friends) and just stood by me for 30 minutes (we didn't really talk much either). Then I left without saying goodbye to him and he called me 10 minutes later to say bye.</p>
<p>I just don't know what to do because I feel really mean to his gf when I do things with him, but at the same time it's really fun. I don't think that I ever initiate anything...I never call him unless it's to call him back, I never IM him first, and it's always him who asks if we can do something....I just respond.</p>
<p>Sounds like he has fallen for you. I am not sure about the gf thing though... maybe he is planning ahead? lol sorry for that ;)</p>
<p>one thing you all may wish to check out is <a href="http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html%5B/url%5D">www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html</a></p>
<p>My best friend is a guy and when he had a girlfriend things got really wierd. We go to the movies and stuff all the time as friends and when he was dating this girl, I felt like she belonged where I was. Their relationship lasted about a year, but it seemed like she was extremely jealous(I would have been too). When they were together, he would call be to say hi or talk about class or something. They finally broke up when he came on vacation with my sister and I and never called her...</p>
<p>...it was just very strange and what this guy is doing with "Calla66" is alot of what we did together. It could just be a friendship but iI agree that t seems like it is more.</p>
<p>you are so lucky. mine's not nearly that obvious... if it was, then i woudln't be here. I'm about as virginal as you can get (my school is small, choices for guys are not so hot)... he's a junior and we used to talk more but for some reason we don't as much anymore and that's what confuses me because i don't think anything changed.</p>
<p>olivia313---</p>
<p>I totally understand about your crush being a junior...I had a huge crush on a junior from last year (I don't even remember the month...it was so long ago) until a few weeks ago. I don't know if your school is smaller than mine but mine is small compared to some schools (around 600 people) and I know that it was hard to talk to the guy in the grade below me since I didn't see him often and I didn't really know what was going on in his life with the girls in his grade.</p>
<p>I wish I could be more of a help esp. in why you two haven't been talking as much. But keep your hopes up! You never really know with guys...they're weird.</p>
<p>haha, thanks. my school is actually smaller... about 350 for 9-12</p>
<p>oh man- so i was actually pretty bummed out without realizing that the ONLY reason i was bummed out was because we hadn't been talking... and then he started talking and my heart actually jumped and i got chills and couldn't stop smiling... i think it's more seriouis than i originally thought</p>
<p>No a lot of us look for other girls while dating. Or use a girl to get to her friends. It's unethical, chauvanistic, and downright wrong, but it happens.</p>
<p>i meant a more serious crush from my side, not from his.</p>
<p>and anyway, i tend to be attracted to the "good" guys... i think i'm slowly but surely getting my answer... ice cream and a movie? woo!</p>
<p>I haven’t hit on a girl for a very long time. Actually, so long that I forgot what I was gonna say here. . . . fail. </p>
<p>.__.</p>