<p>NYC2013:</p>
<p>The “lecture” came because it was my opinion people on this forum were tossing around a lax view of partying without giving the warnings of personal and legal consequences. This is a public forum. You don’t know who is reading this, including administrators and/or police. Further, you most certainly don’t want to give an impression that Fordham is tolerant of illegal behavior, because it is not and such an impression could be dangerous, and some students that Fordham is interested in recruiting may be turned off by it. As well as their parents.</p>
<p>The response of the administration on your anecdotal report was appropriate. Fordham, I am sure, doesnt want to do room by room searches like the gestapo because somebody thinks they smell pot. They have to respect the reasonable expectations of privacy of students in their dorms. But if an RA catches someone using drugs of any sort, they are required to write them up and report it. Ditto for underage drinking. </p>
<p>I am sure you know people who test the limits of the rules. Kids are kids. But there are also bright red lines, and illegal drug usage has serious consequences. </p>
<p>I am also aware students want to present themselves and Fordham as “cool” and they think that will attract students like them. Birds of a feather. </p>
<p>I don’t apologize for my opinions, nor my politics, nor my parental instincts. I was also “20” once and I don’t have a holier than thou or hypocritical viewpoint.</p>
<p>Binge drinking on campuses has caused deaths around the country. Alcohol is also a known depressive agent and can lead to mental problems that spiral out of control. (I also know alcoholism is a disease related to brain chemisty and enzymes and some people can NEVER drink because of it…having nothing to do with the quantity or frequency of drinking…its a disease.) </p>
<p>I want kids to come to Fordham and have the time of their lives, a fulfilling academic experience and to spread the gospel of Jesuit ethos and ethics. I want a diverse community of catholics and non catholics, black, white, asian, hispanic, geographical diversity, economic diversity…all of that. </p>
<p>I want it to be a fun place, a healthy and safe place, and above all a respected institution of higher learning. </p>
<p>Its not a personal attack on you or others here on this forum. I am just being clear about the consequences (and yes, Fordham has dismissed kids for bad behavior). </p>
<p>Having one beer (even if under 21) or a glass of wine is not my concern. But binge drinking or gross intoxication or ANY illegal drug abuse is my concern and the concern of every parent and the University. Does it happen everywhere? Yes it does, sadly.</p>
<p>Alcohol is allowed in the dorms for upperclassmen who are of age. I have no problem with that. Alcohol is served at Fordham social events. I ask students to respect the rules and the law and to be moderate in their usage, for their own safety and health and that of their fellow students. </p>
<p>Ask any EMS worker at Fordham (many of whom are Fordham students) and they will tell you the sad tales of students who overdosed or passed out from drinking.</p>
<p>In the meantime, have fun, be respectful and focus on your studies. Its a very expensive school! </p>
<p>Have a good day.</p>