<p>My son's close friend is a sophomore there He is a serious student, great kid, east coast kid, and loves it there, doing well. Wasn't a party animal when I knew him, and if he is now, he doing it with good grades; his parents are thrilled with his experience there. Just one kid, I know, and there will be many counter anecdotes, as there always are, but it is possible for a serious student to do well and be happy there. </p>
<p>My other friend was not happy about what she read about Ohio U when her son was accepted there, and now after he has graduated, says the stuff was true, her son got a taste of the bawdiness there, but it was a good match of a school for him, and a good choice. he would not have been happy at Drexel and some other school that were other choices for him, despite the fact that there would have been less of the hooey that she was concerned about. It is a balancing act and you ave to know your kid and hope that she can walk the narrow path most of the time, and is lucky enough not to get into trouble when she takes a detour. Most schools have the alcohol and party temptations. In fact almost all of them do, and many students do check out that scene. If you know you have the type who will revel in it and let it take over, that may be a factor in your college choices. But in my opinion, there are a group of kids who will find the parties, distractions, vices where ever you put him and likely get into trouble. There are some that can go anywhere, and have no issue with these and other distractions. The big group in the middle is all over the chart and is difficult to predict. And as a parent, it is not always possible to know where your child falls when the supervision disappears. There are kids who were serious, non challenging , interested in schoolwork, great friends, no sign of contraband or high risk behaviour, goes to a school that is not on any party list, but gets sucked into the drug/alcohol/sex/ party scene. The hell raiser in highschool, might mellow out in college and that hair of the dog he was able to get in highschool give him the extra knowledge to know how far he could go. The streetsmarts and some bad consequences could keep him out of potential trouble in college where more naive kids may not see the danger signs of some situations and get caught. </p>
<p>I agree with the posters that when you have schools with national sports teams and lot of hoopla, a large residential college , lots of frats, certain other criteria there is more of the party scene. Not necessarily a bad thing. I cringe from the suitcase schools that are dead on weekend more than I do from the former scene.</p>