<p>if a girl called you and told you she was pregnant?</p>
<p>Depends if it were mine. Is it?</p>
<p>say congratulations..?</p>
<p>Lol, first thing that came to mind is "Get a paternity test and then we'll talk."</p>
<p>Well If it were mine, I'm not sure what I would do. I wouldn't ever want to be in a situation like that unless I'm away at the time and Married to a wife.
If it is your then I would be there, tell your parents...if they are the type that will help (some would go totally ballistic and you would turn into an outcast). But then this is YOUR child, not because you want it to be...but because it has your blood running through it. You have just as much as an obligation as your 'girl'. But still, some girls lie and say their pregnant for some reasons I don't know...maybe its just a scare. I had a friend who though she was pregnant for a while...it was a false alarm. So don't assume everything is true...ask her to confirm it...?
if it's not yours...then just be their for your friend...times may get rough for her.</p>
<p>i agree with cono and chaimex that some girls (for whatever reason) lie about that sort of stuff. hopefully she was just playing with you?</p>
<p>abort abort abort!</p>
<p>^^^^^^^true</p>
<p>I'd probably quote Juno.</p>
<p>"Like I'd marry you, you'd be the meanest wife ever ok? And I know that you weren't bored that day. Because there was a lot of stuff on tv and The Blair Witch Project was coming on Stars and you were like, "I haven't seen this since it came out and so we should watch it," but oh no we should just make out instead la la la..."</p>
<p>ahahaha, fun stuff. greatest script ever.</p>
<p>Please excuse my apparent apathy.</p>
<p>laugh until i realized she was serious then i would tell her i would only support it if the test came back and said i was the father</p>
<p>may be harsh but my cousin is in the same situation and i dont believe the babies (having twins) are his but i dont think anyone is gonna get a test</p>
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<p>...I seriously hope you're joking.</p>
<p>If it is yours, and you abort it, I think you're an idiot. You were responsible enough to have sex, but not responsible enough to be a parent? Then you should've kept it in your pants, because that's what sex is for. I don't care if you were protected.</p>
<p>If it's not yours or she's kidding...frankly, serves you right.</p>
<p>that's a dumb question. you didn't specify if it's yours or not and if she wants it or not.</p>
<p>and by "girl," i'm assuming you mean HS-age but it could be any age.</p>
<p>Well... I'd say congratulations for the successful reproduction of your genes... You have contributed positively to the survival prospect of our species. </p>
<p>Just kidding... Too much AP Bio. :)</p>
<p>Pffft, I'm guess I'm glad that I'm not going to be pregnant any time soon because there is no way I could afford a test to prove who the father is. Gotta love how cynical everyone is on that aspect of it, haha.</p>
<p>I'm not sure if this is a real situation, guys. Could be hypothetical.</p>
<p>How could you destroy an innocent life? If you create it, its your responsibility and the mothers to take care of it or figure out a viable solution like adoption. People are willing to pay for her medical care plus big bux for a healthy baby to adopt. This is sick but true, even though it's still better than abortion because at least this way the child can grow up and have a chance at life.</p>
<p>...I'd dump her for cheating on me.</p>
<p>Then maybe feel sorry for her, a bit.</p>
<p>Then feel like a jerk for dumping her in her time of need.</p>
<p>Then lay in bed for a few days wallowing in my misery.</p>
<p>That's what I'd do.</p>
<p>wow, i can tell a lot of people here are pro-life...</p>
<p>I'd scream because it'd mean that I'm even more confused with my sexuality than I already am.</p>
<p>^^^
best post on this whole thing
lol</p>
<p>ps
im pro choice
^_^</p>
<p>I'm pro-choice, but abortions aren't against my morals. I don't feel it my place to shove my morals down others' throats, and people should have their rights.</p>
<p>"I may not agree with what you're saying, but I'll defend to the death your right to say it."</p>
<p>or something like that...</p>