<p>These post help me decide between school A & school B drive me nuts. Asking for feedback is one thing but as people who at least demonstrate that there is something about them that merits acceptance, what is it so lacking i that you cannot make a decision where the biggest benefactor is you. We all understand that the process is stress and sometimes daunting. I believe that you already know of should know what you want from your college experience. If money is not the issue and your parents have no major issues with you leaving the state and all other things being equal go to the best school for you. Forget about the rankings as they change from one year to the next. Don't worry about grad placement because you still have 3 years before you even get to that bridge and in that time what you think you want to do today may not be all that it is cracked up to be 3 years from now. Go where you will truly be happy. You do not need permission from the greek chorus of anyone to validate your decision for you.</p>
<p>As an observer through out this process from ED to RD, my heart went out to people like Elizabeth -who has been the true definition of grace through out this whole process Dartmouth's loss is Wellesley's gain , Calidan, Newbyreborn, Babybird, Smartalec and others had they been accepted to Dartmouth, this would have been a no brainer.</p>
<p>I am grown tired hearing about of the cons of attending Dartmouth is that the school is in the middle of nowhere, it's cold, and its a small town. Yes!! Dartmouth is all of those things as you knew or should have known that when you applied. Did you think that the school all of the sudden was going to move to some tropical location because you applied? Spare me the comments about the crunch granolas, drunken frat boys, preppies because guess what, you are going to find them at almost every school in the country (barring the highly religious ones as even the schools with no Greek presence are not at a loss for drunks)</p>
<p>There are over 3000 colleges in this country all of them will give you a good education if it is your desire to obtain one (I can give a first hand testimony to that). Ask yourself, is this a school that I would recommend to others. I remember my daughter telling me that she had a great time in high school, and she really liked it but she wants to * love * her college. Can you see yourself saying I love being at ___________<a href="you%20fill%20in%20the%20blank">/I</a>.</p>
<p>I really cannot tell you how they do it at other schools, but I have never seen anything like what Dartmouth does as far as having a sense of community that begins the moment you are officially the class of 09. Its almost like having a baby; everyone is so excited at the prospect of your arrival. From being greeted by the H-crew at the beginning of your DOC trip, to doing the salty dog rag when the trip comes to a close. Having orientation where you are the guest of honor and everything is planned with you in mind (last year 12 days, 165 events). </p>
<p>Youll go to convocation, matriculation and having your group picture taken where you will forever be the class of 09. Youll be celebrated at home coming as you run around the bonfire nine times wearing your 09 jerseys, some having your face painted but everyone having a good time. Youll want to host prospies because you want them to know how special Dartmouth is and how next year they can ave the same amazing experience. </p>
<p>No one should have to convince you to come to Dartmouth. For those that are students and alumni, I think their blood really does run green. Their decision to attend is something that resonates in their spirit. They chose Dartmouth and they dont look back concerning the what ifs because for them it is the right place for them.</p>
<p>In the end, I hope that all of you go where you can have the greatest overall experience possible. The call of 09 will be a stellar group as all those before them. Like it or not it with or without you, it will happen. For those who chose to attend, Congratulations, you are in for the ride of your life. For those who dont choose to attend, I think Blu, and Lawyerdads kid are doing the dance of joy because it opens the possibility of being getting off the waitlist.</p>