Date ideas for dummies

<p>So I like this guy, and I want to ask him to hang out some time. Not necessarily a date or anything, just hanging out. It doesn't matter. I don't particularly like the movies, because I won't really have any opportunities to talk and get to know him (correct me if I'm wrong)... </p>

<p>Do you have any ideas about where we could go or what we could do? I can't go bowling or do something else really physical because I've had a back injury. And I can't drive yet.</p>

<p>Help?</p>

<p>Thankyou.</p>

<p>I was going to say SKATING!!! but then i read the injury part. That sucks. um, i read this picture date thing where you hang around random places like the park and museums, and then take pics and go to CVS and develop them, but that's more like something you do with your bf. Umm, first date, i would just stick to the movies. Sorry, but there's really nothing else you can do.</p>

<p>usually, people go to lunch on a first date, mainly because you want to get to know the person, or simply have a nice chat. movies and candlelight dinners are saved for later.</p>

<p>Knowing me I would play games all day. oo; =] Aaawww movies and candlelight dinners! ><; You're so romantic kchen. xD</p>

<p>Go to a basketball game, either highschool or college. You have time for small talk and basketball is great.</p>

<p>BTW, what type of guy is he? oO;</p>

<p>ew, sports lol. (I'm not a huge sports fan...) </p>

<p>If you're not the talkative type, I'd try a "study date", invite him over to your house with the excuse of studying for some test, but make a nice cake, rent a movie and ask him if he wants to watch it later... etc. Of course, the studying part comes in handy because you're literally forced to talk and who EVER studies on study dates? haha. </p>

<p>Other ideas are concerts, brunch/breakfast at some cute local bistro/cafe (sit outside if it's nice out! my favorite <3)...</p>

<p>Well I don't know him THAT well, but he's pretty atheletic... he also likes hip-hop/rap music I think... I'm not sure what else, maybe if you asked me a more specific question I'll think of some more.</p>

<p>Does he own a PS2, XBOX? Nintendo? or what?</p>

<p>I have no idea, maybe? I don't know how to play that stuff though.</p>

<p>Take him to lunch. Also, try to hint to him that you like him, and if he likes you, he'll ask you out. Thats what my girlfriend did.</p>

<p>How do I hint that I like him?</p>

<p>XD Give him those blinky eyes! [blinks blinks blinks] To tell you the truth Kate I don't know. x.x; I don't have a boyfriend.....><; So I really don't know.</p>

<p>Wow, you sound like me! Umm, smiles and stares work very well, at least for me they do.</p>

<p>Lunch is so casual. I go to lunch with long lost friends and possible furure business connections.</p>

<p>Dinner and a movie is totally okay as a first date, not too romantic at all. Although, if you REALLY dont know what youre doing, the movie could be awkward.</p>

<p>Try something fun. If you live someplace warm, go to the zoo!</p>

<p>just hint to him somehow that you and him should go eat somewhere. Say that he would like it. Try to be creative. My girlfriend drew me a picture showing that she and I should go to see a movie. That made me realize that she liked me. I went and asked her out and she said yes. The best thing you can do is to try to show him that you like him by talking to him a lot and by trying to get to know him better. He will eventually realize this and most likely ask you out. But, don't be annoying when you try to talk to him more. Someone else did the same to me and all it did was it made me try to stay away from her.</p>

<p>He doesn't go to the same school as I do, so right now we can only message on myspace. </p>

<p>Also, what's considered annoying?</p>

<p>Annoying would be like talking loud, talking way too much, or talking only about yourself. I find those annoying. If I were you, I would just say hi when you meet him, ask him how he's doing, and just start talking normally. Since he doesn't go to your school, then you should tell him that the both of you need to hang out more, or something like that. Then invite him to lunch or dinner. If you do this often, he will eventually realize.</p>

<p>And when would be a good time to get his number, if I should at all? Or should it be like exchanging numbers?</p>

<p>You should definitely ask him for his number if he has a cell number. Give him yours. You could ask him for help in a school subject, that way you could get his phone number.</p>