<p>I'm a high school senior, but my potential girlfriend is a sophomore. I will be attending college this year on the east coast (Syracuse or Carnegie Mellon). Im worried that everything will be over by the time I leave, and if by the time that happens, shes moved on. Shes amazing and i just want advice to see if its possible to maintain such a relationship??</p>
<p>There are great schools where i live in southern california, but the better ones for me and my academics are out there.....Im really worried, and i feel like going to a local school just to stay close is bad choice. That being said, I really want to hang onto this one :]</p>
<p>Any advice guys? this site has never failed me yet</p>
<p>ah I felt like getting that in there. tbh, I asked out a senior girl I really like; she said that she doesn’t like flings, was leaving in 4 months and didn’t want to get too attached. I told her that as long as you have a good time and have fun in a relationship, go for it no matter how short it will be.</p>
<p>i agree, go where U want to go for college. & i was going to ask if u reallyyy like this girl, but then i read “That being said, I really want to hang onto this one :]” lol, cute but u should probably talk to her before u get too deeply involved…</p>
<p>Seriously, you should go to the college you truly want to go to because the reality is that you could stay in the area and end up breaking up with her and then regret not going to the college of your dreams on the East coast. If it’s really meant to be then the long distance thing will work. I know I can’t exactly put myself in your shoes feel the exact same way you feel, but I do know that it would be foolish to stick around just because you don’t want to loose her.</p>
<p>You can still keep her; it will just have to be at a distance.</p>
<p>ok so heres the thing. im caucasian. I go to an mostly asian school abt 80% and im in the IB program and AP’s all that jazz. Consequently, most of my friends are asian. its just scary for me (ironically) going to the east coast with mroe caucausian ppl. im so used to here. The girl i mentioned is asian. I feel like im leaving home if that makes sense. But HILSA i agree, that probably what it is! but you cant blame me, sometimes ppl just grab a hold of you and you cant seem to let em go.</p>
<p>I dont know, Ive just grown up in a different neighborhood to a lot of white kids, so i see things a little differently.</p>
<p>Btw, I hope no one is offended by this, its just race is kinda relevant to my situation. :]</p>
<p>Enjoy the remaining time together as a couple
Ask her to your Senior Prom
Go to the Spring Formal
Hang out during the summer
Go to college and meet all types of people, have new adventures, become an adult
She still has 2 years of high school to complete</p>
<p>yeah it looks like my first inkling was right…I will definitely see how things go and make the rest of this year unforgettable thanks to all of you who responded. You have my thanks and appreciation. Feel free to ask me for advice too</p>
<p>Oh Dear God, please don’t base your college choice on your “potential” relationship. Unless you have a irrevocable arranged marriage with someone, pleeeeease choose college on where YOU want to go. </p>
<p>But that doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy the next five months with her and see where things can go…</p>
<p>Is it possible to regain an old love one (girlfriend/boyfriend) back after a lot of issues?
Even if she/he says they’ve “moved on” but still keep talking to you and sometimes even argue? Also, if they are obsessed with a celebrity?</p>
<p>one of my close friends has a boyfriend who is away at college already and honestly, they couldn’t be closer. if you guys really like each other and want to keep a relationship going, then its possible. i know they spend time together whenever there are vacations and talk to each other for hours on the phone or on webcam every night. the most important thing is communication, because then each person feels like they are still very much a part of the other person’s life.</p>
but u should probably talk to her before u get too deeply involved…</p>