<p>What are some great ideas to take a girl out for a first date around a college campus? I took out another girl couple of weeks ago to bowling, dinner, and then a movie but i don't she enjoyed it. I wish i was back home then i wouldn't have this problem.</p>
<p>If you have a kitchen in your room/apartment, cook for her. If not, think outside the box...look for any fun events run by the activities office (mine used to have make your own ___ like once a week), or you could always go for the simple coffee and chat for a while.</p>
<p>I tried cook couple months ago. I'm a great cook so I cooked her like a french Supreme de poulet and Coq au vin. And then made a chocolate mousse. Took way too long and was expensive. I am at my college btw.</p>
<p>Simple is best. Going to a movie and dinner is pretty cliche and/or routine and should probably be done after a few dates. But if you're just trying to get to know a girl u should probably think outdoors. Going to parks or the beach (if there are any around) are good and making small talk isnt so extremely difficult then when having to stare at each other across a dinner table.</p>
<p>It's fun to just walk around. I don't know if you're in an urban, suburban, or rural area, but find a nice sidewalk or grassy area and just wander along with her, walk slowly, and keep eye contact for most of the time. have fun!</p>
<p>I think that bowling, dinner, and a movie is too much for one night. I'd just see if there was something interesting going on around campus and then maybe go out for coffee or dessert or something. </p>
<p>The thing I hate about going on dates to movies (except for after a few dates) is you don't really get to talk and get to know each other that much. I much rather go hang out at the beach or some outdoor place where we can talk and all of that.</p>
<p>The girl was probably unsure about dating you, so most likely her behavior was not from the activity you chose. If a girl likes a guy enough then she should enjoy any activity they do on a date. Personally I think bowling with dinner and a movie would be fun, but I could see myself feeling uncomfortable spending that much time with a guy I'd still be unsure about.</p>
<p>I think movies for dates are fine, as long as there is dinner along with it.</p>
<p>Don't do anything that puts you in a staged, awkward environment, i.e. dinner. You should be able to just walk around, talk, see a campus concert or event. It may not feel like the stereotypical "date," but it lets you get a feeling for things, and maybe invite her to come to your room and watch a movie with friends or something. Even something like that is far better than going out to see a movie, I've found.</p>
<p>my bread and butter are always coffee or the mall.</p>
<p>catsushi, her friend told me to ask her out. after date though i was just like meh.</p>
<p>i figured it out. im just going to ask her if she wants to go for walk. and then go to dinner</p>
<p>go for a walk where man? you got to plan this out ahead of time. My suggestion is karaoke. Chicks dig it all the time</p>
<p>I hope you\'re not paying for all that man. If you spent all that money on bowling, dinner, and a movie for the two of you and she didn\'t like it, you\'re being played like a fool.</p>
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<p>Dating 101: sit NEXT to your date, not across from your date. </p>
<p>A movie should be fine, whether at your place or at the movies. Really, it\'s not about the date. It\'s about you spitting your game no matter where you are.</p>
<p>I'd say taking her out to Starbucks would be your best bet. Casual and cheap. </p>
<p>I wouldn't ask her to just randomly go for a walk. If you just want to nonchallantly talk with her, just take her out to the zoo or to the local parks/trails/lake for a picnic or something.</p>
<p>well when i said walk i meant like around campus/trail. idk now im confused. leahhh where are you? i need help. or easy. hahahaha</p>
<p>here's what NOT to do (not that i know from experience or anything..):</p>
<p>tell a girl you're gonna take her out to lunch around 1:30 or so and instead take her to a head shop so that you can pick out a bowl for an hour and a half, then discuss the merits of each one while she starves to death next to you, slightly pretending to be almost interested.
not a good date.
also, taking a girl to your college's DINING HALL for dinner and then proceeding to attempt to hook up with her on a park bench is not a good date.</p>
<p>i like just having a guy take me out to a nice (but pretty casual!) dinner. it's classy & you get a chance to talk.</p>
<p>also, easy's advice will probably in some way involve a threesome.
not a good first date ;)</p>
<p>Yeah, foursomes are much better.</p>
<p>If you're going to take a chick to the dining hall, at least swipe your card for her.</p>
<p>If that means paying for her, no. Just no. ^</p>