<p>Not sure what answer we are looking for. The truth is I think we know that answer to “Do I look fat?” D did talk to me over break but she hasn’t mentioned it since so I think I should not say anything. When I see her if I really think its necessary I will say something. But I guess she is a young adult now and has to figure these things out for herself. Everyone knows the only way to lose weight is if you yourself really wants to. Its just so hard as a mom to let these things play out. The truth is her eating is not under my control now and she has to make the right decisions for herself.</p>