<p>It is good to get a perspective and a reminder that this is hard for our children as well as for us. I have been very weepy knowing that everything is ending, things will never be the same, etc., and while D appears to be fine with leaving, I have been wondering if she has any of these feelings as well. I can’t imagine that she doesn’t but she always keeps things very much inside her so it’s hard to know. This has to be a very hard time for them, with so many conflicting emotions, excitement about the new life and sadness to leave everything as they know it behind. I know it’s been hard for me, it has to be hard for them. And yes, I agree, for the OP it’s probably mostly the BF but maybe this is bringing out the other emotions as well.</p>