<p>Debt is a personal choice. Buying things like timeshares are luxuries and colleges aren’t going to give you aid because your parents made personal and luxurious decisions and now have debt.</p>
<p>You’re on the wrong path. You’re spending all your focus on the Common App and “full need” schools, while your parents are VERY rightly concerned about costs because they know you’re not going to get the aid you need.</p>
<p>$170k or so income is too high to get ANY aid at most schools. Harvard or Yale might give you a LITTLE bit of aid, but your parents would still have to pay the BULK of the costs, which they can’t pay.</p>
<p>You have to realize that getting “some” aid is not going to work for your family, since most/all schools are going to expect your parents to pay a LOT more than they can.</p>
<p>For instance, at a school that costs $55k+ per year… Say, the school determines that you can get $10-15k in grants (at a super generous school) based on family income. Will your parents pay the other $40-45k??? Very likely NOT. </p>
<p>Do this NOW:</p>
<p>Ask your parents how much they can spend each year on college. If they nervously won’t tell you, sit them down and say that it’s VERY important that you don’t waste time and money applying to a bunch of schools that will not work out. </p>
<p>Explain to them that the schools that are on your current list will expect a very large financial contribution from them (likely full pay or close to it). If that’s not possible, then that’s why you need to know how much they CAN pay.</p>
<p>Tell them that you need to know if you must apply to schools that will give you very large merit scholarships for your stats.</p>
<p>For instance…if they say that they can contribute $10k per year, then you will need AT LEAST a full tuition merit scholarship from a school. That way, your parents $10k plus a $5k student loan can cover your room, board, books, fees, etc. Half-tuition scholarships, etc, would NOT be enough with that scenario, because the remaining costs ($30k) would not get covered. </p>
<p>If they still won’t say much, then say, “If you can contribute $12k per year, then that means that you have to come up with an extra $1000 out of the family budget each month for 48 straight months…can you do that?” (frankly, if they’re in debt, they may not be able to even come up with that much). </p>
<p>The bottom line is that parents who are in debt do NOT have extra money leftover at the end of each month. That’s why they can put very little towards college…even though they have a high income. All their money is already “spoken for”. </p>
<p>What are your test scores and GPA (include SAT breakdown)</p>
<p>What is your GPA?</p>
<p>What schools do you like?</p>
<p>What state are you in?</p>
<p>What is your major and/or career goal?</p>