Debutantes

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<p>Hey
I am a four generation debutante (even though it is not really me, but fun any way lots of great philanthropy). Big white goen and everything I was just wondering if other people are. what people's preceptions of debutantes are? Does it happen where you are from? ect...</p>

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<p>None where I live, heh…</p>

<p>Do you have to go to those pompous parties and such all the time?</p>

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<p>You mean the uber rich?</p>

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<p>no thats the thing
here its tottaly normal. like everyone is a debutante, but once you go even 15 miles away no is.
most of what we do is charity and not pompus parties :slight_smile:
to even be considered to be presented you have to have done at least 500 hours of community service. its just tradition in my family, but not exactly my thing.</p>

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<p>not the service part the big fluffy dress and waltzing isnt my thing
i agreed beacuse of the service aspect (i realize that could be misconstured)</p>

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<p>Where the crap do you live?</p>

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<p>I would imagine she lives in the 1920s.</p>

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<p>How much coke do you do?</p>

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<p>i live in southern california
i dont do coke. any
and yeah its a really old tradition, but like maybe 1/3 of my friends “get debed”</p>

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<p>“i dont do coke. any”</p>

<p>disgrace to your kind, lol</p>

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<p>my kind :slight_smile:
yeah sorry i am no celebutant, just a nice happy young lady in a huge white dress
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<p>socal…I should’ve known</p>

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<p>yeah i fit all the stereotypes
i surf, i do yoga, i eat organic food
most amazing place to live </p>

<p>anyway the main point of this thread was is this: where i live being a deb is somthing to be proud of. it is a sign that you’re committed to your community and philanthropy and honoring your family. As hard as it is to believe, its not a look im richer than you kinda thing. i promise! (the ball is a fundrasier for the local hospital) but i realize it comes off that way to everyone else.
should avoid it with colleges?</p>