<p>I'm a freshman at a state school.</p>
<p>Lately, I've been quite indecisive about wanting to transfer to another school...There are those gloomy depressing days where I really want to transfer and then those couple of days per week when I think about the very few friends I've made here that make me want to rethink the whole transfer process. I also think about the opportunities in leadership roles I've acquired, etc. that will allow me to grow and establish ties throughout the next few years.</p>
<p>I feel unmotivated and simply feel that I do not fit in... this has (I feel), unfortunately, affected my grades a little. Sometimes I feel that staying here will eventually drive me crazy.</p>
<p>My question is when/how did you decide that your previous college was not "the one"? Is it normal to feel this way during your freshman year?</p>