<p>Thank you for all the replies. My parents are volatile and it might not actually be safe for me to be “adult” and tell them what I have in mind, but I also don’t want to lie. I know most seniors don’t have firm plans by now, but I’m worried the people at this party either won’t know that or will push me into telling them what I’m considering, or, worse yet (!), will start throwing suggestions at me if I say I don’t know. Hopefully a kind and warmly stated “I’m not ready to share my plans yet” will work… or else I’ll pull the plastics line and throw them for a loop, haha.
Thanks…</p>