Delaware or Rutgers?

<p>I've limited my college search down to Rutgers and Udell but I'm having trouble deciding which school will be best for me. I live in NJ so Rutgers is cheaper but not by much because I received money from Delaware. Rutgers seems to be too big but has a lot to offer. Delaware has a great campus and a more traditional college experience. Both have solid academics (poli sci major, spanish and arabic minors). I like to have a good time and party but I don't want to go a school where drinking is the only option for nightlife, mostly because I don't want to mess up in school. Any suggestions?</p>