Deperate for some advice/help

<p>I'm more than aware that this thread will likely end in my dreams being crushed, but I need to do this anyway so I can make some serious life decisions. </p>

<p>I want to go to Michigan more than anything in the world. It's so enthralling to me... I've dreamed about it since I was a kid and I was on my way there until my sophomore year in high school. Then I began suffering from severe depression. I stopped going to class, my GPA plummeted and by the start of my junior year I had quit. It took me a year to become driven again, I started working (albeit for my uncle, nothing serious) and earned by GED (560 battery average) and took my SATs (I did poorly, a 1550 and just a 690, 700 and 690 on my subjects... I couldn't afford to retake them). The end result was a semester at a ****ty university in the UK, where I ran out of money and was forced to leave as I could no longer afford my rent.</p>

<p>That landed me in my current position. I've just begun freshman classes at Henry Ford Community College in Dearborn. It's far too early to project a GPA. I just took my ACT's, though I have a sinking suspicion that I only scored in the 20-23 range as I was unprepared. I'll retake them as soon as I can afford it. </p>

<p>I'm begging someone to give me some advice on getting into Michigan. I've accepted the idea of going to UM-Dearborn as a last resort, at least I could use the library in Ann Arbor, but that thought thoroughly depresses me. I'm starting to realize this is probably the most important period of my life, I've already screwed up so much and I'm terrified of the repercussions. This is all so overwhelming.</p>

<p>Your best chance is to get a very high GPA at community college, 3.8 and up. Then transfer after you’ve established a record of academic success. It’s definitely possible with a high GPA. Establish healthy habits (food, sleep, exercise) to manage your tendency to depression. Good luck!</p>

<p>I heard that many Washetenaw Community College in Ypsilanti is good for transferring to U of M.</p>

<p>If you’re dream is to go to michigan, I would continue studying at Henry Ford CC, and study extremely hard to get ahead of the competition. Be active during your CC career. Join some clubs, maybe part-time job, summer internship or work, volunteer, etc. Show that you are committed to recuperating from your depression and your poor high school career. Then try transferring into michigan your junior year. I know several students at michigan that have transferred here following bad experiences [at highschool] by showing the university that they are now capable and more responsible of taking more advanced studies through succeeding in Community college.</p>

<p>All I can say now is to be devoted to your studies, hold still to your goal, retake the SAT/ACT when you’re ready to, and then try transferring. Even if you aren’t accepted at michigan, succeeding at any college is the best step to take when desiring to get ahead. Also, Try not to feel overwhelmed. Although you’ve had a difficult past, you still have a future to look forward to. Show Michigan that you have the power to advance through hardships and they will see the endurance and persistence inside of you.</p>

<p>Volunteer as much as you can at CC and keep your GPA high</p>

<p>helpless91, I think you need to focus on getting your life back together and then focus on realizing your dream. Try to make the most of your opportunity at Henry Ford and try to get good grades. Good grades are always better than bad ones. Do this without thinking about going to Michigan. If things work out, Michigan may still be in your future. If Michigan is not in your future, you will still have a future without Michigan. The world opens a lot of doors and you just don’t know what is on the other side of yours.</p>

<p>As far the ACT goes, you should check with admissions office about this. My recollection is that transfer students should not be taking standardized tests while they are in college.</p>

<p>If you get it together and do really well in community college (3.8+ GPA with tough classes), I honestly think you have a really good chance of transferring into U of M, especially if you mention all of your hardships in your essays.</p>

<p>Thanks for the advice, everyone. I’ve always done a lot of volunteering, so it’s awesome that that can help me… I guess I’ll need to go out of my way to join clubs, etc. I’ll speak with a transfer counselor at both HFCC and U-M about making up a plan to make transferring possible, HFCC has one of the higher acceptance rates for U-M transfers. </p>

<p>res ipsa, thanks for that too. It might not be impossible for me to go to Michigan, but you’re right… I shouldn’t let the idea of it dominate my existence. If I’m destined for UM-D or a directional, I might as well do my best and hope for a good grad school. College is what you make it, or so I’ve been told.</p>

<p>You CAN still do this. I graduated high school with a 2.8 and a 23 on the ACT, I went to community college and got a 2.7 my first semester. I left community college after two years with a 3.7 to come to Michigan (and I retook the ACT having taken 4 or 5 practice tests and got a 29-- which is pretty good considering they refuse me disability accomodations). The average gpa of the LSA transfer is a 3.6, so I was shooting for that at least and I made it. I joined a few clubs (rotoract, newspaper staff, phi theta kappa, etc), wrote some good essays, and I got in. You can still turn it around. You just have to remind yourself now every time something gets in your way, be it something out of your control or something as simple as the urge to procrastinate, that THIS is your chance to go to Michigan, and it will slip away if you don’t do whatever it takes to take it. I remember when I was in CC I kept a certain quote in mind, I can’t remember who it’s by, but it goes something like, "There is no such thing as CAN’T. It’s just a matter of whether or not you are willing to do what is necessary." That really motivated me to get myself in gear. What was necessary was losing all of my bad study habits overnight, working harder than I’d ever work before, working NONSTOP until I got the job done. I had to overcome a learning disability to do that, but I did it. That was what was necessary for me to get into Michigan, I did it, and I am here. If I can pull it off, so can you. There were more than a few times when I wanted to skip class or blow off studying (because I was tired, or I *deserve *it after all I did yesterday, blahblahblah), but I would come back at myself with, “ah, well, I guess you aren’t WILLING to do what is needed to get into Michigan. I guess you don’t REALLY want to go.” It was a good remedy for me. :P</p>

<p>The great thing about the way that this country’s educational system works is that, for most situations, it is really difficult to permanently screw yourself. Mess up in high school? No big deal! Go to community college and you can redeem yourself. If you’re successful there, even with your past history, you can get 4 year universities to give you another look. That was a FANTASTIC opportunity for me to prove that I can do well despite what happened to me before, and it can be for you, too.</p>

<p>ETA:</p>

<p>Res ipsa is correct in that they don’t really care about your ACT scores anymore once you start college. There is nothing discouraging you from taking them (and you still have to submit your scores), but it isn’t necessary. I chose to take it because I wanted to see how much better I could do if I had actually prepared. I hadn’t taken a subject in any of the courses tested in a good two years, but I didn’t prepare at all for the ACT in high school and had been diagnosed with learning and physical disabilities since then that SHOULD have qualified me for accommodation even though it didn’t, so I thought I stood a chance of doing better and wanted to do that for myself. I guess it was a confidence thing to me, I was trying to prove to myself that I really was smarter than I’d been given credit for. Whether or not you want to take it is up to you, but it shouldn’t be the end of the world if you cant, little to no weight is put on ACT score for transfers. However your pre-college record will be asked for-- but they forgave mine so I don’t know that I’d worry about that if I were you.</p>

<p>I know guesting won’t count toward ability of getting into Michigan… but it’s kind of hard for me to find summer internships as a history major. Would anyone recommend attempting to guest there?</p>

<p>At the risk of being annoying with questions, I have another. If I don’t get into Michigan, how big does the prestige of your undergrad school weigh in your chances of getting in for grad school?</p>