I started out this semester fairly strong. I didn’t have all A’s, but I had about a 3.0. I’ve always struggled with depression and anxiety, but it’s been the worst that it has ever been these past few months. I never skipped class in high school. Even last year when I did dual enrollment at the college that I currently attend, I didn’t skip class. But my depression has been so bad that I haven’t been able to convince myself to get out of bed to go to class for the past month. A MONTH. I know it’s bad. It’s not that I just don’t care enough to go, but I was so depressed and ANXIOUS about it all that I spent most of my class time in bed trying to muster up the strength to get up and get dressed or sat in the shower crying about the fact that I’m inevitably going to fail out of college.
I know that I need to go to school. I’m not someone who can just not go to college. I want to go to college and I want to enjoy it and I KNOW that I am smart enough to succeed.
Grades are due tomorrow and I am almost 100% sure that I will not see a grade above F. My parents don’t know that I’m failing. I don’t want to disappoint them. They know that I suffer from serious depression and anxiety, but they don’t know how it has affected me this semester. I don’t know what to do. I don’t even know if my school allows medical withdrawals. I’ve never had the guts to go to a doctor about my depression, and I wonder if my lack of paperwork from a doctor about these mental illnesses will prevent me from being excused from this first semester.
Moving on from this semester, does anyone have any advice on dealing with severe depression and anxiety while at college? I want to use this semester as a learning experience so that I can go on to improve next semester and make the grades that I know I can make if I am in a good headspace.