<p>All I can say is, if you’re Asian and you’ve had too much pressure put on you, do two things: 1) don’t bother trying hard unless it’s for something you enjoy; and 2) when/if you have kids, don’t pressure them at all. I mean, no, don’t let them become reckless junkies who have no respect for themselves, but don’t expect them to be number one at everything.</p>