<p>I'm wondering if I should mention my depression as a reason for transferring in my common app essay. </p>
<p>Essentially, I'm depressed because my parents forced me to go to a college because of its reputation, even though I hated it both times I visited, and besides being a good school, it was the exact opposite of what I wanted in a college and did not offer either of my intended majors (and they made this decision after I had already made my deposit at a school I loved). I really tried to give the college a chance anyway, but after a few months I realized that it was almost exactly what I hoped it wouldn't be. Due to this, I've pretty much felt like I'm not even living my own life anymore. I know it's usually not recommended to talk about emotions in your essay, but my depression definitely affected my grades last semester. </p>
<p>I'd like some input on whether I should tell the whole story about my parents and everything, or even not mention my depression at all.</p>
<p>Thanks for your help!</p>
<p>Being unhappy and having depression are two different things. You seemed more unhappy than having actual depression.
I’m not trying to trivialize what you are feeling or anything I just wouldn’t call that depression.
About mentioning it in your application I’d avoid it. </p>
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<p>Thanks for your advice, I probably won’t mention it! You might be right, I hope I’m just unhappy, but I’m seeing a therapist (who recommended that I take this semester off, but I decided against it since I need a full year to transfer) and I’m probably about to start taking medication…</p>
<p>I think it’s great you are seeing a therapist that will help a lot especially if you do feel your unhappiness will manifest and lead to depression.
Hmm, they already want to put you on medication? I can’t say too much b/c I don’t know your detailed or specific situation or anything…but some doctor’s like to hand out prescriptions like as if it were candy.
It should be a last resort if they feel you are becoming self-destructive and/or suicidal. I hope your therapist has your best interest in mind. Best of luck with everything and I do hope things get better for you.</p>