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<p>It’s not the same thing because in your example I’d be holding people responsible for fixing problems that came along with bad personal decisions.</p>
<p>In my case, I am punished because people feel annoyed by my lack of social intelligence. It doesn’t mean that I think people are conspiring against me, it’s just the way many human beings respond to people with low social intelligence. Solutions to the problem include: developing social intelligence, growing a thicker skin, making people understand that people with low social intelligence are not necessarily their enemies. The first and second solutions are works in progress. The third solution is ideal but obviously unrealistic.</p>
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<p>I was under the impression that narcissists exaggerate their achievements and have an inflated image of themselves. After reading my forum posts, do you really think I am that type of person?</p>