<p>You have a good chance with girls if you learn to love yourself first. Don't be cocky, intelligent girls hate that. From what you've written so far I think its safe to assume you would never get along well with an ordinary airhead beauty. Every girl is different. Some girls like huge buff guys most of us like the kind that work out but aren't massive, and some really like the skinny look. Looks are a part of it but since every girl has such a different definition of what cute is you shouldn't change your looks, just try to look your best and the right girl will be attracted to that. I personally wouldn't ever date a great looking guy who wasn't very smart and just wanted to be mediocre. I want to marry that knight on the white stallion who will sweep me off my feet and change the world. Not that there are to many guys like that. A lot of girls go for the buff confident airheads because there isn't much else. Guys that are smart tend to either be antisocial or like a brilliant kid at my school hide their intelligence and come off seeming fake. Just be your self and I'm sure you'll get the girl of dreams even if it takes time.</p>