I think I have a feel for you & your situation.
If primarily interested in business, the University of Richmond is a great option. 3,000 fulltime undergrads, 52% female. Very attractive, beautiful campus. Really nice weather.
College of William & Mary could be difficult. But, if you don’t try, then you won’t get admitted for sure.
My impression is that you are serious about school & want an environment of ambitious, intelligent, hard working folks.
P.S. Hopefully you read the portion of post #21 above which I just deleted. If not, PM me.