Big hugs to your daughter, @twinsmama. That is precisely the damage that all the hype here on CC over BS can incur, and it’s totally unfounded. I’m sure your love will help her gain a better perspective, but I do hope for good news for her this round.
I definitely had to curb my behavior last year, as to not manifest any stress or anxiety. This continued through the summer as well…my kid did not want to obsess about school in the way I would have so I made sure I didn’t invade her experience.
K#1 is home from boarding school for spring break which is a wonderful distraction for K#2 waiting to hear from schools. Problem is, K#1 is distracting her with stories about how amazing BS is which makes K#2 all the more nervous about M10…