<p>well I guess I'm too shy and lazy to go ask girls out, so if any girl is interested in doing that to me, feel free to call me.</p>
<p>lol no, just curious. Do many girls take the first step and actually ask boys out?</p>
<p>I’d rather be asked out than ask. </p>
<p>Asking a guy out. I’d do it, but perfer not to.</p>
<p>Well, guys almost always ask the girl out, even if the guy is shy and the girl isn’t.</p>
<p>But what happens if the guy is too shy to do it, the girl makes it really obvious that she will say yes if/when asked out, so that the guy shouldn’t have to worry about anything.</p>
<p>A girl that asked me out would be quite impressive. But yes, mostly likely she will make it extremely obvious that she is into you so that you will ask her out.</p>
<p>I mostly agree with what others have said. I’ll make it obvious I’m into a guy. But the situation I’m in now, unfortunately we are both extremely shy to do anything.</p>
<p>^DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.</p>
<p>Do I have to say it a third time? ;)</p>
<p>I would, but I usually don’t. If I’m already dating someone I’ll, like, “ask them out” on another date but I don’t prefer to… make the very first move or anything, I guess.</p>
<p>Yeah for whatever reason it’s still a bit <em>awkward</em> for the girl to ask the guy out…idk why 
Usually I’ll initiate stuff like, come get coffee or lets go running or something to hang out, but to make it “official” (God I feel so cheesy using that terminology XD) the guy has to say something…</p>
<p>I ask guys out. Well, one guy. But not really on dates, on “things.” I don’t really think it makes a difference.</p>
<p>I don’t know if I’d ever ask a guy out… I guess I’m scared of rejection.</p>
<p>i would normally ask a girl, but idk, it just kinda switched to where she asked me first…</p>
<p>I’m a guy, and I got asked out. Wasn’t a big deal, and it wasn’t like I didn’t have the balls to ask her out. She was just more proactive.</p>
<p>I don’t think I’d ever ask a guy out. I don’t know, call me old-fashioned, but I’m just used to it being the guy’s job. And I don’t envy them.</p>
<p>i ask guys out,
all the time,
but i don’t think i’ll do it anymore
because as it turns out
“will you go out with me” is a very awkward question
guys interpret it as meaning anything from coffee to marriage
and then if the guy doesn’t know you well already
future interactions are very awkward
(especially if he says yes)</p>
<p>i think i just do it wrong</p>
<p>I wish more did.</p>
<p>Yes! If she wants it, she should go and claim it!
Girls ask me out, and it’s really really sweet when they’re more assertive - but I ask guys 
.</p>
<p>i ask chickens</p>
<p>and they cluck</p>
<p>cluck</p>
<p>i ask ducks</p>
<p>and they quack</p>
<p>quack quack</p>
<p>@ fizix2: lol @ someone who thinks “will you go out with me” = marriage.
I don’t think you do it wrong, it’d be totally cool when a girl say that to me whether they mean dating (lol that term makes me feel awkward) or casually hanging out.</p>
<p>lol it’s not realllly like that,
it’s just that posing the question
makes people think of the possibilities
and i had a guy reject me
because he thought his parents wouldn’t approve.
which is usually something that comes up much later,
and it could have been dealt with easily</p>